My gd fren was troubled abt her relationship with 'Anthia Lim Wan Him'.... After they confirmed each other's feelings.... Things start to go wrong... Commonly seen in many ppl, once the secret leak out, both of either one will get shy and hide away from that person.... 

But from my experience (*i'm not very experienced anw) I think it shouldn't be like that, it will end up worst.... Which is bad:/ cause one of the party will feel that u are closer with other guy/girl and start getting jealous and have the thought of u are happier with others than with me.... For example~ but that's not the reasons! It's cause ppl get shy easily~ especially when it comes to relationship.... Except for those play buy/girl lah~ no offence! 

I hope that she can learn to face him in the normal way before everything happen lah~ cause he like who she is and not the shy her!